Thursday, July 17, 2008
Life.
I really appreciate every comment made on this blog because it means that there are people out there reading about my life story and learning about the ups and downs of life.
Also, I will not be affected by any negative comments because I have already anticpated such situations when I decided to set up a blog + provide a shoutbox. Therefore I am ever ready to accept any comments, whether kind or nasty. But please do take note that whatever you say here reflects on your character & personality. So please take care in not embarrassing yourself :)
Even if you want to criticise, do it elegantly. Agree?
That aside,
if you have been following the news, you would have learnt about this ex-TPian who lost his life in June while serving the army. Vic found the blog of his gf, Charlene, and I've been following her entries. And I must say, it really breaks my heart to learn of this tragedy.
I guess it's harder to move on when you lose your loved one. Comparing to breaking up, at least there's a reason to the break-up & hopefully a mutual understanding to it. But when your loved one dies... How can you accept it? It seems not valid enough to move on and find another soulmate. Simply because you still love that person!
Imagine if you face a break-up, it may be because that person is a bastard or a bitch so it gives you every right to find someone better. But if the person passes away, what right do you have to find someone else? It just seems so unfair.
Well, I admit I'm not speaking from experience, so I may be wrong. But it's just so heartbreaking :( & afterall, they are considered my seniors, so I do care.
Charlene (http://memyselfmine.blogspot.com/)
May she find someone who can make her just as happy :)